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# Shy & Curious

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- [Post Listing Layouts](https://shyandcurious.com/post-listing-layouts/) - Post Listing Layouts List - Horizontal Post Love, RinStories The Semi-Bearable Loneliness of Being: Dealing with the holiday blues Unless a Christmas miracle arrives in the next week or so, it looks like the grapes didn’t work this year.… By Noorindah IskandarDecember 23, 2025 WellnessWorkshops Talking To Myself: Journaling For Clarity If your life was a
- [The Semi-Bearable Loneliness of Being: Dealing with the holiday blues](https://shyandcurious.com/the-semi-bearable-loneliness-of-being-dealing-with-the-holiday-blues/) - Unless a Christmas miracle arrives in the next week or so, it looks like the grapes didn’t work this year. Neither did they work the year before. So it’s pretty safe to say that I’ll be skipping the New Year’s Eve ritual of sitting under the table and furiously devouring 12 grapes. Nope, I did not meet the Love of My Life in 2025. I really believed that I was so close though. That much is true. But I guess I was still lucky enough to meet two Soft Spot(s)of My Life™ this year alone.
- [Talking To Myself: Journaling For Clarity](https://shyandcurious.com/talking-to-myself-journaling-for-clarity/) - If your life was a memoir, what would 2025’s chapters look like? Journal your highs, lows, plot twists and plan what’s next! Perhaps there were a few plot twists that that you’re still figuring out? Whatever highs and lows you’ve experienced, join us to take a respite to meaningfully celebrate and reflect on the year as we plan for what’s next.
- [Turning the 'Ouch' to 'Oooo': 3 Ways to Make Sex Less Painful](https://shyandcurious.com/turning-the-ouch-to-oooo-3-ways-to-make-sex-less-painful/) - I made my sexual debut with an ex who was unusually well endowed. Of course, I didn't know it then since it was also the first time I saw a penis in real life and not from a Wikipedia article. I assumed the pain was normal when losing my virginity and that it'll get better
- [Love Your Boobs: A Free Breast Health Monthly Tracker](https://shyandcurious.com/love-your-boobs-a-free-breast-health-monthly-tracker/) - Video Courtesy of Something Private YoutubeIt's been quite a whirlwind for us since our official launch almost 2 weeks ago! We've been touched by the positive responses and truly honoured by the trust placed in us by those who have shared their personal stories through our DMs and emails. Honestly we're a little overwhelmed and
- [Hello Fermata: Our Top 3 Sexual Wellness Buys for 11.11](https://shyandcurious.com/hello-fermata-our-top-3-sexual-wellness-buys-for-11-11/) - If you’re just as superstitious as I am, you’ll probably know that if you come across the digits 11.11 in your everyday life – like glancing at the digital clock, seeing a license plate or even a receipt number – that’s a lucky sign! Nowadays we also know it as the yearly Single Day sales
- [Gone (Cat)Fishing: 5 Signs to Spot A Love Scam](https://shyandcurious.com/gone-catfishing-5-signs-to-spot-a-love-scam/) - In my past life, I’m a known tech whiz. I get paid to advise companies on their social media, I research their competition, and build their websites. In other words, my Google skills and foresight paid the bills. So in my defence (and arrogance), I assumed I would be the last person to fall for
- [Under the Covers: Solve the Ovulation Puzzle with Kegg 2-in-1 Fertility Tracker](https://shyandcurious.com/under-the-covers-solve-the-ovulation-puzzle-with-kegg-2-in-1-fertility-tracker/) - Getting pregnant is both a science and a mystery – we know how it works technically yet it’s still considered a miracle of life. So beyond the obvious answer, how do you actually get pregnant? Meet Kegg 2-in-1 Fertility Tracker who’s here to help you solve the Ovulation Puzzle.
- [The Importance of Aftercare: What to do after sex](https://shyandcurious.com/the-importance-of-aftercare-what-to-do-after-sex/) - We spend a lot of time talking and educating ourselves about what happens before sex, during sex and even how to get sex but surprisingly not much is said about what to do after sex apart from a vague “Go and pee”. So, in the spirit of the new year and new (sex)olutions – let’s talk about Aftercare.
- [Hidden in Plain Sight: Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for The Shy & Discreet](https://shyandcurious.com/hidden-in-plain-sight-valentines-day-gift-guide-for-the-shy-discreet/) - Hidden in Plain Sight: These objects of desire serve double-duty as not only are they chic and sleek, but also can be used outside the bedroom from night-to-day.
- [Love in Five Minutes: 10 Tiny Love Stories](https://shyandcurious.com/love-in-five-minutes-tiny-love-stories/) - I’m a creature of sentiment and habits. I wear my mum’s gold rings on my fingers. I spritz my necklace pendant with my love’s cologne. I tattoo myself with lessons. Now each time I look down and it stares back, my tiny reminder tells a different story.
- [S&C Seeks: "I'm a Lesbian/Muslim, in love with a Lesbian/Atheist"](https://shyandcurious.com/sc-seeks-im-a-lesbian-muslim-in-love-with-a-lesbian-atheist/) - I'm a muslim and this is what it's like to have a same sex relationship with an Atheist.
- [Healing From Heartbreak: 5 Relationship Experts To Know & Follow](https://shyandcurious.com/healing-from-heartbreak-5-relationship-experts-to-know-follow/) - I’ll be upfront. I’m grieving. I may write about love, sex and me but it doesn't mean that I'm immune to loss. So in times like these, I have two numbers on speed-dial: my tarot card reader and my therapist. They help me through my lowest trenches and interestingly, their advice work in tandem and
- [Let's Talk About Sex with Frankly My Dear](https://shyandcurious.com/lets-talk-about-sex-with-frankly-my-dear/) - Bridgerton, ethical porn, how to talk to your sexual partner and the night in the Chinese restaurant when I realized I couldn't repress "the real me" anymore. These are just some of the things I spoke about in my interview with the popular podcast Frankly My Dear.
- [You Are Enough: A Sensory & Journaling Workshop](https://shyandcurious.com/you-are-enough-a-sensory-journaling-workshop/) - It’s been a year since the world has shifted to a new “Normal” due to COVID-19. While it looks like the end of the tunnel is near with worldwide vaccines and end of lockdowns, we haven’t really measured the impact of Zoom fatigue, relationship challenges and feeling ‘stuck’. We understand the grief, worry and fear
- [Couples Month: “He loves me, he loves me not” Workshop](https://shyandcurious.com/shy-and-curious-attachment-theory-workshop/) - How we were raised as children may hold the key to our adult romantic relationships through the research of attachment theory. Join me on 11 April 2021 in this informal support group.
- [Let's Talk About Sex with the Boys: The Drunken Ramblings Podcast](https://shyandcurious.com/interview-with-the-drunken-ramblings-podcast/) - When I was asked to appear on The Drunken Ramblings Podcast with Ernie, Ivan and Alexia, my only hesitation was "Uhoh, am I going to reveal too much on the show?"
- [The Perks of Mutual Masturbation](https://shyandcurious.com/the-perks-of-mutual-masturbation/) - Mutual masturbation shouldn’t be seen as a ‘lesser’ form of pleasure and it isn’t an either-or situation in terms of sexual experience. If you’ve been skipping mutual masturbation as part of partnered play, here's what you’ve been missing out…
- [Love, Rin: The Things We Leave Behind](https://shyandcurious.com/the-things-we-leave-behind-my-memory-quilt/) - It would have been my late mother’s 63rd birthday on Thursday, 10/6. It also marked 609 days around the sun without her. (She would have appreciated the 6 and 9 - she believed in both numerology and toilet humour...). Throw in the solar eclipse and Mercury Retrograde with the surreal nightmares, it was a heavy week emotionally for me.
- [Friends With Benefits : The Lowdown on Keeping it on the Down Low (Part 1)](https://shyandcurious.com/friends-with-benefits-the-lowdown-on-keeping-it-on-the-down-low-part-1/) - An instructional guide to becoming friends with benefits and other factors in casual sex. And oh what to do if you happen to catch feelings...
- [Friends With Benefits : The Lowdown on Keeping it on the Down Low (Part 2)](https://shyandcurious.com/friends-with-benefits-the-lowdown-on-keeping-it-on-the-down-low-part-2/) - It may be called a No-Strings Attached (NSA) affair but ultimately they all come with loose threads that may end up in a messy entanglement if you’re not careful. So let’s dive into one of the most important factors in casual sex: Risk Awareness.
- [Friends With Benefits : The Lowdown on Keeping it on the Down Low (Part 3)](https://shyandcurious.com/friends-with-benefits-the-lowdown-on-keeping-it-on-the-down-low-part-3/) - Communication & Transparency is a factor that’s often dismissed because hey, isn’t that where the ‘casual’ in casual sex comes from? Well what if we tell you it’s the most essential in navigating the dreaded Big 3: Catching Feelings, Mind Games and Drama? Join us in the final part to our Friends with Benefits guide.
- [Sexcapades with Jasmine: I Wish Someone Told Me Podcast](https://shyandcurious.com/sexcapades-with-jasmine-i-wish-someone-told-me-podcast/) - If you ever wonder what my conversations with sex-positive advocate Jasmine King are like behind closed doors, well check out the very first episode of Season 2 I Wish Someone Told Me! We sat down for a chat about how Shy & Curious got started, how to spice things up in the bedroom, staying safe while being sexy and not one, but two very sexy personal stories when Jasmine asked “ Tell me about one of your sexcapades that you’re willing to share?” Wanna know what (or who) they were? You just have to tune in and find out….
- [Under The Covers + GIVEAWAY : Iroha Petit Jelly Clit Massager](https://shyandcurious.com/under-the-covers-giveaway-iroha-petit-jelly-clit-massager/) - When I saw the pictures of the latest women’s pleasure toy from the Japanese brand Iroha , I was so intrigued but it also brought me back to the days of when we had those yummy jelly cups as kids. Now this is definitely a treat for Adults Only! P.S. Stay to the end of our giveaway!
- [Quickie with Rin: Why do I feel sad after sex?](https://shyandcurious.com/quickie-with-rin-why-do-i-feel-sad-after-sex/) - Quickie With Rin: Why do I feel sad after sex? If you have the tendency to feel a little blue after sex, even if you had an amazing time… you’re not alone! It’s actually pretty common to feel sad or anxious after a sexual encounter due to “The Drop”.
- [How to have Difficult Conversations with your Sexual Partner](https://shyandcurious.com/how-to-have-difficult-conversations-with-your-sexual-partner/) - I wished it’s as easy as having a glass box engraved with “EMERGENCY USE ONLY, BREAK GLASS” with a script inside for every awkward conversation you’ll possibly have with a partner, long-term or otherwise. Trust me, I’ve been there many, many times. And I’m still learning along the way with each challenging situation. So that’s why we need to talk... about having The Talk®.
- [Quickie With Rin:  Free Hiv Testing With Action For Aids](https://shyandcurious.com/quickie-with-rin-free-hiv-testing-with-action-for-aids/) - Did you know that you can get free HIV testing at Action For Aids in Singapore? Read about our experience to find out more about their STI testing initiative.
- [Quickie With Rin: Trying Out Period Panties
](https://shyandcurious.com/proof-period-panties-review/) - I've been onfence on for the longest time about Period Panties. How do they work? Are they just diapers for women? Would it feel squishy to wear it the whole day? Won’t it smell? What happens to all the lil bloody clots?? So when Fermata asked if I’ll like to review a pair, I had to say yes – all in the name of curiosity!
- [Shy & Curious on Rice Media + ONE® Dirty Little Secret](https://shyandcurious.com/shy-curious-on-rice-media-one-dirty-little-secret/) - Pictures by Liang Jin Tey for RICE MediaRemember how I'd mentioned World Sexual Health September is going to be a busy one? Well that's because we were featured by another amazing writer, Leticia Sims for Rice Media! When Leticia reached out to me and mentioned she'd been following the growth of the blog since our
- [Discreet Spending: Hedonist Tribe Lovette Vibrator Review](https://shyandcurious.com/hedonist-tribe-lovette-vibrator-review/) - Our reviews have gotten a new format! Now called ‘Discreet Spending’, we’ll take you through the key elements of the toy reviewed including the intensity and sound. Do note that we’ll be featuring vulva and penis models in this video so you might want to make sure you’re somewhere private (at least not on public
- [ONE® Dirty Little Secret: Why do I feel guilty about my boundaries?](https://shyandcurious.com/one-dirty-little-secret-why-do-i-feel-guilty-about-my-boundaries/) - One of the themes that kept repeating during ONE® Condoms's panel was the idea of voicing one’s needs in a relationship without ‘feeling guilt’ or ‘making the other partner feel bad’. Why do we take on behaviours that might be detrimental to our own needs?
- [Love, Rin: My Boudoir Shoot with The Pin-Up Rebels](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-my-boudoir-shoot-with-the-pin-up-rebels/) - My Little Secret & Sad Story Here’s a little secret about me that may be one of the scariest things for me to reveal on the Internet. Amidst the talk of self-love and acceptance, there are exactly three things I don’t like about my body: my tummy rolls, my extremely short eyelashes, and my side
- [#NewSexSlang with IPPF: A Recap](https://shyandcurious.com/newsexslang-a-recap/) - A couple of weeks ago, we were honoured when IPPF (International Planned Parenthood Federation) approached us with an intriguing brief – help us build a new Sex Dictionary with the #NewSexSlang challenge. Oooo... what does that mean? Words matter – sex is far more than just fucking. The words we use say a lot about
- [Discreet Spending: Womanizer Premium 2 vs Classic 2 vs Starlet 3 Toy Review](https://shyandcurious.com/discreet-spending-womanizer-premium-2-vs-classic-2-vs-starlet-3-toy-review/) - Five years ago, I found myself single after an arduous 8 year relationship (Editor’s Note: That’s a different story for another day!). So like an uplifting montage in any rom-com movie when the main character finds herself dumped without warning: I got a myself a brand new job, a fabulous haircut and a game-changing luxury
- [Love, Rin: My First One Night Stand (Part 2)](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-my-first-one-night-stand-part-2/) - The things they should warn you about the first morning-after. Morning Breath. Bedhead. Smudged raccoon eyes (if you’re lucky). Total bare skin (if you’re not). Putting back on dirty underwear. Walking home feeling like you have a blinking neon-sign above your head “I HAD SEX!”
- [Love, Rin: My First One Night Stand (Part 1)](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-my-first-one-night-stand-part-1/) - How did a hopeless romantic end up having a body count higher than actual boyfriends? How did I find myself not just advocating for casual sex but teaching workshops on how to find friends with benefits? Well it all started with a game of pool, my very first (ex)boyfriend and David Bowie.
- [S(Ex) Education: 10 Things I’ve Learned About Sex From My Exes](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-education-10-things-ive-learned-about-sex-from-my-exes/) - In the spirit of World Sexual Health Day with this year’s theme being ‘let’s talk pleasure’, I take a walk through memory lane – or more accurately my Spank Bank records. From being a sexual newbie at 22 to the grand cougar-y age of 38, here are my top 10 lessons on the good, the bad and the sexy I’ve picked up over the years.
- [Discreet Spending: Lovense Exomoon App-Controlled Bullet Vibrator Review](https://shyandcurious.com/discreet-spending-lovense-exomoon-app-controlled-bullet-vibrator-review/) - I went on a honeymoon with my Lovense Exomoon to test the app-controlled bullet toy. And just like a real love affair, it started off unsuspectingly, blew my mind as we got to know each other and now you can’t tear us apart.
- [Of Boobs, Biopsies & The Big 'C' (Part 1)](https://shyandcurious.com/of-boobs-biopsies-the-big-c-part-1/) - I’m going to say the thing that you’re not suppose to admit out loud as a woman: I. Love. My. Boobs. I mean – I really, really, really love my breasts (or tits if you’re feeling nasty). I love how they look, how firm they are, and how comforting it feels to tuck my hands under my armpits, and rest my palms on them like a hand bra. But it took me a while to be a fangirl of my girls.
- [Of Boobs, Biopsies & The Big 'C' (Part 2)](https://shyandcurious.com/of-boobs-biopsies-the-big-c-part-2/) - As I lay on the examination table waiting for it to start, her head popped from behind the curtain. I recognise that expression anywhere in any lifetime. The tight pursed lips and slight furrow of her brows betrayed the worry she was trying to hide. She glanced at the technician and then locked eyes with me. “Mummy?” I blinked and she disappeared.
- [Of Boobs, Biopsies & The Big 'C' (Part 3)](https://shyandcurious.com/of-boobs-biopsies-the-big-c-part-3/) - It was the trickle that finally broke me. Like an itch that annoyed the shit out of me, there was nothing I could do about it on account that I was preoccupied by my biopsy at the moment. My left arm was resting behind my head; half of my back propped up on a cushion wedge; my right hand desperately squeezing a yellow foam stress ball that I stole from the office, and my eyes tightly shut as I turned towards my right shoulder and away from the scene of the crime.
- [Much Ado About Aging: Turning 39](https://shyandcurious.com/much-ado-about-aging-turning-39/) - Image Credits: Chai Mo, Click With Chai You know what’s worse than finding your first grey pube? Finding your second one. When I first spotted that glint down South a year ago, I was in the midst of toweling myself dry after a shower and inspecting the fuzz to see if was time for a
- [Rin’s First Midlife Crisis](https://shyandcurious.com/rins-first-midlife-crisis/) - It was exactly a week after turning 40 that I had my first mid-life moment. I slipped and fell in the shower. I was relatively fine on the outside but internally, I was freaking out as it dawned on me in that split second; “Who’s going to find my body when I die?”
- [Love, Rin: I'm in Limerence](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-im-in-limerence/) - “I’m in limerence” doesn’t have the same ring to it as “I’m in love”. But given how the term ‘limerence’ has been making the rounds in the world of Instagram and TikTok dating coaches lately, it felt apt to introduce the buzzword in my relationship lexicon. Because for the first time in a long time, I met someone. And I forgot how giddy, amazing, frustrating, spiraling, debilitating, crazy, butterflies-in-your-stomach, overwhelming, wonderful, fun, lost, scary, stupid, beautiful this part can be.
- [Rin’s First Kink Social](https://shyandcurious.com/rins-first-kink-social/) - There’s nothing like holding onto a rhinestone leash attached to the leather collar of a 6 foot man towering over you that will make you realize, “Oh, I’ve a lot of anger in me.” Because after the initial hesitation on my end as I gingerly held onto the leash and whispered, “Is this ok? Am I holding this right? Am I hurting you?” and got a shy smile from him in return “Yes Mistress, what would you like me to do next?”
- [Shy & Curious Workshops: July 2025](https://shyandcurious.com/shy-curious-workshops-july-2025/) - KL, Tango, Art, Flirting - what more can we say?
- [Shy & Curious Workshops: April 2025](https://shyandcurious.com/shy-curious-workshops-april-2025/) - From confidence to shibari, all the fun stuff to add a little zing to your bedroom!
- [Workshop: Bedroom Recipes (8th Feb)](https://shyandcurious.com/workshop-bedroom-recipes-8th-feb/) - A ladies-only practical guide workshop to confidence between the sheets
- [Guest Feature on Love Sex & WTF with Dee Ashburn](https://shyandcurious.com/guest-feature-on-love-sex-wtf-with-dee-ashburn/) - This was one of the most fun I've had recording a podcast with and I'm so glad it's with Dee Ashburn for Love Sex & WTF! The sexual wellness industry in Singapore is a tiny one and especially as a brown girl, it can be tricky when showing up with a different cultural and religious upbringing from the majority.
- [Talking To Myself: Why Shy & Curious took a Hiatus](https://shyandcurious.com/talking-to-myself-why-shy-curious-took-a-hiatus/) - There’s no clever opening line. No wry quip or apologies for the absence of my voice for the past seven months. Just a plain and simple truth: I’ve been depressed.
- [Shy & Curious x Deema & Co: 7 Tiny Love Stories](https://shyandcurious.com/shy-curious-x-deema-co-7-tiny-love-stories/) - Hello friends and lovers, surprise! So while I've always been a writer at heart and I enjoy being on other podcasts, I've never really thought about having my own. But one of the things I wanted to do this year was something that would scare me and something that would be new. So voila, here
- [Sex, Love and Report Cards: A recap of 2022 (Part 1)](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-love-and-report-cards-a-recap-of-2022-part-1/) - You would think that waking up on January 1st next to a gorgeous boy in the Ritz Carlton would be an auspicious start to 2022. Spoiler Alert: It wasn’t. Instead it was just another plot twist the universe likes to throw in my quest for love to keep me on my toes. But I’m getting ahead of myself so let’s get back to the real reason why you’re here: my sex life.
- [Sex, Love and Report Cards: A recap of 2022 (Part 2)](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-love-and-report-cards-a-recap-of-2022-part-2/) - I'm wrapping up (pun intended) the long (another one) and hard (I can’t help myself) look at my sex life in 2022. Also has sex and my attitude/experiences change pre and post-pandemic?
- [Safe Sex(t): How to Protect Yourself When Sexting](https://shyandcurious.com/safe-sext-how-to-protect-yourself-when-sexting/) - I'm a terrible flirt in real life. Drop me in a social setting and I can still hold my own in a decent conversation. But cue the entry of a relatively attractive guy into the mix, and that's when my brain disassociates from my mouth and I revert to being a 13-year-old. I end up
- [Sex Toys 101: Debunking the Sex Toy Myth](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-toys-101-debunking-the-sex-toy-myth/) - In a move that’s both sweet and life changing, it was my first boyfriend who bought me my first sex toy. (Yes, the same ex who was just a tad too big for me). Sex was getting more pleasurable than my debut session but I’d yet to have an orgasm. Perhaps buoyed by his confidence
- [Sex Toys 101: Factors To Consider When Buying A Sex Toy](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-toys-101-factors-to-consider-when-buying-a-sex-toy/) - Congratulations – so you’ve made the decision to get your first sex toy! Before you head down to your local boutique or start browsing into the wild wild West of online sex toy stores, here’s a checklist of things to consider when making your purchase. We don’t mean to sound like a nag but since
- [Looking For Love at 35: A Personal Essay](https://shyandcurious.com/looking-for-love-at-35-a-personal-essay/) - Original artwork by Alexandra Compain-Tissier My name is Noorindah and I’m a recovering love-aholic. I believe in destiny, twin flames, astrological compatibility, and the 5 love languages. I also believe in gaslighting, love-bombing, toxic relationships, and attachment theory. I won’t remember what I did two months ago on a random Tuesday, but I can tell
- [Period Sex: Why you should switch from Nay to Yay](https://shyandcurious.com/period-sex-why-you-should-switch-from-nay-to-yay/) - There are a few pairings in life that will always get polarizing reactions. Like pizza and pineapple, fries and ice cream... periods and sex. We bust the myths on period sex and why you should go from Nay to Yay
- [Sexting 101: A How-to Guide to Sending Nudes and Sexy Texts](https://shyandcurious.com/sexting-101-a-how-to-guide-to-sending-nudes-and-sexy-texts/) - I’m a proud card-carrying member of the Sex(t)y Selfie Club. With the ubiquity of ring lights, mobile tripods and camera filters, it’s almost ridiculous how easy it is to become your very own model / photographer / art director / lighting crew / retoucher. Here's 5 tips to how to take a sexy selfie so you can easily rival a Playboy centerfold from the comfort of your bedroom.
- [Love, Rin: How to Lose a Guy in One Date](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-how-to-lose-a-guy-in-one-date/) - Last year I went on a first date that I hoped would be the first of many more. We met online and chatted for a week. He was sweet, charming, smart and direct. He’d asked if we could continue the conversation in person over a meal and I was already impressed. “Alright, he knows exactly
- [The Legacy of Softness: Celebrating 2 years of S&C](https://shyandcurious.com/the-legacy-of-softness-happy-2nd-birthday-sc/) - 'Soft’ is a dirty word in my household. Or to be more precise, to be called ‘lembik’, its Malay equivalent, was considered an insult as it also happens to be the synonym for ‘weak’. “Sikit-sikit aje nak nangis, lembiknye Baby...”(“You cry at the drop of a hat, you’re so weak Baby”) My late mum used
- [Join us at Frankie's Valentine Virtual Wellness Retreat](https://shyandcurious.com/join-us-at-frankies-valentine-virtual-wellness-retreat/) - Valentine’s Day can be a loaded word for many, including yours truly. In all my years of dating, I’ve celebrated it “traditionally” just once with an ex when he bought me chocolates and a sushi dinner date. For the rest of my dating life, I would generally stay in to avoid the reminder that Cupid
- [Love, Rin: And Just Like That...](https://shyandcurious.com/love-rin-and-just-like-that/) - What did I do on this short hiatus as we cautiously tip-toe our way into the third year of a global pandemic? I turned to a group of good old friends and caught up with them since it’s been forever and a half. You probably know them too - Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and a little city called New York.
- [She and Her Good Vibrations: Interview with Olivia Griselda](https://shyandcurious.com/she-and-her-good-vibrations-interview-with-olivia-griselda/) - Illustrations by Sarah Cheok, Photographs and videos by Olivia GriseldaAs the saying goes, you'll never forget your first. The first kiss. The first love. The first sex toy. And that's how Singapore-based filmmaker Olivia Griselda got inspired by the tragic ending of her first sex toy, to join forces with her co-director Sarah Cheok in
- [S&C Erotica: Cat Got Your Tongue (Part 2)](https://shyandcurious.com/sc-erotica-cat-got-your-tongue-part-2/) - When we last left Selena and Nicolas, she was "getting back" at Nicolas in her own way as he kept teasing her in the bar. Now the tables have turned for her as it's his turn to take over and teach her a lesson she won't forget! 😈
- [Why I started Shy & Curious](https://shyandcurious.com/why-i-started-shy-curious-com/) - Shy & Curious sprung from my mum’s and my shared love for dirty jokes...
- [Navigating Shy & Curious](https://shyandcurious.com/navigating-shy-curious/) - There's this infamous conversation between me and my high school girlfriends that they never fail to bring up every so often when we catch up. It was just one of those lazy days after school where we were hanging out at the cafeteria, sipping ice cold lemon teas and gossiping. I forgot how it started
- [Sex Toy Guide 101: Tales of a Sex Toy Consultant](https://shyandcurious.com/sex-toy-guide-101-tales-of-a-sex-toy-consultant/) - You’ve debunked the myths, went through your shopping checklist and now it’s finally time to start shopping for your first sex toy! So… where do you actually start?For that, we gave a call to one of our dearest friends, Pea – the Friendly Neighborhood Sex Toy Consultant™!
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