You would think that waking up on January 1st next to a gorgeous boy in the Ritz Carlton would be an auspicious start to 2022. Spoiler Alert: It wasn’t. Instead…
‘Soft’ is a dirty word in my household. Or to be more precise, to be called ‘lembik’, its Malay equivalent, was considered an insult as it also happens to be…
I went on a honeymoon with my Lovense Exomoon to test the app-controlled bullet toy. And just like a real love affair, it started off unsuspectingly, blew my mind as…
In the spirit of World Sexual Health Day with this year’s theme being ‘let’s talk pleasure’, I take a walk through memory lane – or more accurately my Spank Bank records. From…
The things they should warn you about the first morning-after. Morning Breath. Bedhead. Smudged raccoon eyes (if you’re lucky). Total bare skin (if you’re not). Putting back on dirty underwear.…
How did a hopeless romantic end up having a body count higher than actual boyfriends? How did I find myself not just advocating for casual sex but teaching workshops on…
Last year I went on a first date that I hoped would be the first of many more. We met online and chatted for a week. He was sweet, charming,…
Valentine’s Day can be a loaded word for many, including yours truly. In all my years of dating, I’ve celebrated it “traditionally” just once with an ex when he bought…
What did I do on this short hiatus as we cautiously tip-toe our way into the third year of a global pandemic? I turned to a group of good old…
My Little Secret & Sad Story Here’s a little secret about me that may be one of the scariest things for me to reveal on the Internet. Amidst the talk…