Shy & Curious Workshops: July 2025
From confidence to shibari, all the fun stuff to add a little zing to your bedroom!
Shy & Curious Workshops: April 2025
From confidence to shibari, all the fun stuff to add a little zing to your bedroom!
Workshop: Bedroom Recipes (8th Feb)
A ladies-only practical guide workshop to confidence between the sheets
Sex, Love and Report Cards: A recap of 2022 (Part 2)
I'm wrapping up (pun intended) the long (another one) and hard (I can’t help myself) look at my sex life in 2022.…
Sex, Love and Report Cards: A recap of 2022 (Part 1)
You would think that waking up on January 1st next to a gorgeous boy in the Ritz Carlton would be an auspicious…
The Legacy of Softness: Celebrating 2 years of S&C
‘Soft’ is a dirty word in my household. Or to be more precise, to be called ‘lembik’, its Malay equivalent, was considered…
Discreet Spending: Lovense Exomoon App-Controlled Bullet Vibrator Review
I went on a honeymoon with my Lovense Exomoon to test the app-controlled bullet toy. And just like a real love affair,…
S(Ex) Education: 10 Things I’ve Learned About Sex From My Exes
In the spirit of World Sexual Health Day with this year’s theme being ‘let’s talk pleasure’, I take a walk through memory lane – or more accurately my Spank Bank records. From being a sexual newbie at 22 to the grand cougar-y…
Love, Rin: My First One Night Stand (Part 2)
The things they should warn you about the first morning-after. Morning Breath. Bedhead. Smudged raccoon eyes (if you’re lucky). Total bare skin…
Love, Rin: My First One Night Stand (Part 1)
How did a hopeless romantic end up having a body count higher than actual boyfriends? How did I find myself not just…