Shy & Curious Workshops: July 2025

Hello friends and lovers, if you’ve been following me for a while, you know I’ll get a lil bit of existential dread in July, my birthday month. So in a bid to turn that around and celebrate, I’m collaborating with my favourite people this month on the popular workshops and some brand new ideas!

Bedroom Recipes with Jasmine King – KL (13/7)

A ladies-only practical guide workshop to confidence n the bedroom brought to you by SMILE MAKERS COLLECTION!


Step into Bedroom Recipes, a ladies-only workshop where girl talk meets practical know-how. Whether you’re single, partnered, or exploring, this event is all about helping know yourself better and feel confident when it comes to intimacy and your body. This is the Sex Ed you wished you had in your 20s!

This 3h workshop includes:

  • Straightforward tips to get to know your body better
  • A hands on lowdown on inclusive toys and tools and how to include them during your intimate sessions
  • Learn to tease and tempt way before entering the bedroom (iykyk)
  • Figure out your boundaries and how to communicate your desires without feeling awkward
  • Techniques for pleasuring your partner that will empower you too

This isn’t a lecture—it’s a supportive, judgment-free space where you can ask questions, learn new things, and leave feeling frisky and empowered!

Jasmine King
Jasmine is the voice behind Jas Explains, a Malaysian platform reshaping how we talk about sex, relationships, and self-worth. She is passionate about sexual reproductive health and rights, and has spoken and moderated in events hosted by NGOs such as UNFPA and WAO, universities and brands. She also hosts her own powerful spaces for honest, inclusive conversations in Kuala Lumpur. Her work has been featured in Tatler Malaysia, SAYS.com, Malaysiakini, and Yahoo!

Date: 13 July, Sunday
Time: 7PM – 10PM
Location: Triptyk, 88, Jalan Tuba, Kampung Attap, 50460 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Tix: RM150/pax
Includes SMILE MAKERS COLLECTION Goodie Bag worth RM130 + 1 drink + light bites

Ladies only


Learn to Tango For Two (Even if you think you can’t dance) (18/7)

Come join us at Curious Parties: Learn to Tango (Even if You’re Shy) for a fun and relaxed evening of dancing and mingling!

Have you ever watched a couple glide across the dance floor, perfectly in sync, and thought: “I want that kind of spark”? Or maybe you’re craving a date night that’s more exciting and less of the usual ‘dinner and a movie’?

Welcome to Curious Parties: Tango for Two— a playful, beginner-friendly workshop designed to help couples deepen their connection and learn new moves on the dance floor!

No dance experience? No problem. Tango isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection and presence. Tango is the dance of passion, trust and spontaneity.

The dance floor becomes your playground to:

  • Share an intimate experience as you learn a new fun skill together
  • Read your partner’s cues without saying a word
  • Turning missteps into playful moments to go with the flow
  • Laugh, flirt and break the routine in a judgment-free zone.

What You’ll Explore Together:

In this workshop, you’ll:

  • Learn The Tango Walk: Master the art of walking with intention and grace
  • Seduce the floor (and each other) with slow, intentional steps and confidence in your movement.
  • Learn the dynamics of leading and following: Learn to listen with your bodies without memorizing steps! No choreography involved as you sense, listen, and harmonise with your partner instead.
  • Discover the art of connection: Shed inhibitions and let the music guide you (no “right” or “wrong”). Explore the balance between independence and connection as you communicate without words
  • Build confidence: Step out of your comfort zone in a supportive, judgment-free environment.

Who’s This For?

This workshop is for anyone who’s been curious about Tango and thought, “But what if I’m not good at it?”. No one starts out being good at something.

  • Couples craving new date night ideas
  • Couples who fear they have two left feet and want to learn easy moves to impress on the dance floor
  • Laugh, flirt, and break the routine in a judgment-free zone.
  • No fancy shoes or skills needed—just bring curiosity and each other. Spaces are limited to ensure an intimate experience.

Date: 18/7, Friday
Time: 7.30 – 9.30 pm
Location: Co. @ Duxton, 99 Duxton Road #02-00 Singapore, 089543
Price: $99 (For 2 + includes 2 drinks & light snacks)

About the Facilitator

Ivan Neo

Ivan Neo is an Argentine Tango dancer, teacher, DJ, and performer based in Singapore. For him, tango isn’t just a dance—it’s about connection, musicality, and presence. He loves helping dancers, whether they’re complete beginners or experienced movers, discover the deeper essence of tango and how it goes beyond just steps.Ivan’s teaching focuses on body awareness, communication, and improvisation, guiding students to feel tango as a conversation rather than just memorising patterns. His classes are structured yet relaxed, with a bit of humor to keep things fun and approachable. Besides pursuing his passion in Argentine Tango, Ivan also has a dance fashion label and is a Wealth Manager with Phillip Securities.

https://instagram.com/ivanneoth

https://www.phillip.com.sg/sg/talktophillip/ivanneoth/


Bedroom Recipes: Couples Edition (25/7)

A men and ladies practical guide workshop to confidence n the bedroom brought to you by SMILE MAKERS COLLECTION!

You’ve asked nicely, so we said yes! Welcome to the couples edition of Bedroom Recipes, an informal workshop where real talk meets practical know-how. Whether you’re single, partnered, or exploring, this event is all about helping know yourself better and feel confident when it comes to intimacy and your body. This is the Sex Ed you wished you had in your 20s!

Open to women, men and couples.
This edition is proudly brought to you by Smile Makers Collection. Each attendee will receive a Smile Makers Collection goodie bag worth $43.

This 2.5h workshop includes:

  • Straightforward tips to get to know your body better
  • A hands on lowdown on inclusive toys and tools and how to include them during your intimate sessions
  • Learn to tease and tempt way before entering the bedroom (iykyk)
  • Figure out your boundaries and how to communicate your desires without feeling awkward
  • Techniques for pleasuring your partner that will empower you too

This isn’t a lecture—it’s a supportive, judgment-free space where you can ask questions, learn new things, and leave feeling frisky and empowered! This sharing session is geared towards anyone curious about being more confident in bed. We aim to create a safe space so please note that this is not a pick-up class or singles mixer. We reserve the right to remove anyone whose behaviour may be deemed as unsafe to our speaker and/or attendees.

Date: 25 July, Friday
Time: 7.30PM – 10PM
Location: Crane @ OUE, 6A Shenton Way, #01-12 Downtown Gallery
Tix: $45
Includes SMILE MAKERS COLLECTION Goodie Bag worth $43


The Emo Mid Year Reset: An Artful Reflection (31/7)

Join us to take a respite to meaningfully reflect and plan what’s next for the rest of the year with Main Character Energy!

If your life was a memoir, what would the chapters for 2025 look like so far? Have you been brave and slayed dragons along the way? Or did you have a meet-cute with a dreamy stranger and discover love? Perhaps life brought you a plot twist that you could have never predicted and you’re still figuring it out? Whatever highs and lows you’ve experienced, join us to take a respite to meaningfully reflect and plan what’s next for the rest of the year with Main Character Energy!

Feel like your 2025 just flew in a blur or you’re not much of a storyteller? We’ll start off with some self-reflective exercises (we promise they’re more fun than they sound) and then craft it out with Nagomi Art! Then let’s imagine what the rest of 2025 will bring (nope, not another vision board…)

This 2.5h workshop includes:

  • Get clarity on your experiences with guided self-reflection prompts
  • Navigate and process your emotions through Nagomi Art
  • Celebrate your triumphs and share your stories with new friends
  • Build your confidence to let go and look forward to what’s next

Drinks and light bites will be served. All art materials will be provided by the organizer.

Date: 31 July, Thursday
Time: 7.30PM – 9.30PM
Location: Crane @ OUE, 6A Shenton Way, #01-12 Downtown Gallery
Tix: $65 (includes art materials)

About the Facilitator

Dian Handayani
Dian, a sex therapist, sex coach, and founder of Nambani in Singapore, has 14 years of clinical experience, having started her career as a mental health art therapist in a public hospital. She holds an MA in Art Therapy from LaSalle College and an MSc in Medicine from the University of Sydney, and she is a board-certified sexologist. As a published author, she contributes to a chapter on sexual shame in the book Solution-Focused Coaching in Asia.

Dian provides an inclusive, safe and nurturing environment for clients to explore their authentic sexual selves, drawing on insights from ongoing training, supervision, and a broad professional network. She focuses on assisting clients with sexistential issues, body image, sexual shame, anxiety, and cultural differences in mixed-marriage couples.

https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnambani


How To Flirt (1/8)

Join us for an intimate and fun flirting clinic as we play Aunt Agony to your dating woes!


Join us for an intimate and fun flirting clinic with Noorindah, the founder of Shy & Curious, and Etty Astika , a former matchmaker, as we play Aunt Agony to your dating woes and give advice to charm that crush while being yourself in this 2h session!

Are you perfectly capable of having a conversation yet get tongue-tied in the presence of your crush? Or wondered how to date without feeling anxious or fake? Have a situationship you can’t figure out whether to stay or go? Share with us your current challenge and get your questions answered and learn practical techniques to improve your existing style by Etty and Noorindah.

Whether you’re trying to get their attention in real life or stand out in their inbox on dating apps, think of it as running by your love life with your besties who’ll want the best for you!

This sharing session is geared towards anyone curious about flirting and how to be more confident. We aim to create a safe space so please note that this is not a pick-up class or singles mixer. Please come with an open mind as we’re here to exchange stories and guide you on how to improve your flirting game if you choose to do so!

Date: 1/8, Friday
Time: 7.30 – 9.30 pm
Location: Co. @ Duxton, 99 Duxton Road #02-00 Singapore, 089543
Price: $45

Meet the Facilitators

Etty Astika

Etty stumbled into matchmaking but stayed for the magic. Turning casual chats into deep connections and making people feel like the main character. Flirting? That’s her second language. From cheeky “Do you miss me?”s to her kopi uncle to compliments that land just right, she’s got the charm to make hearts flutter and egos blush.

With a bold blend of confidence, curiosity, and connection, she brings playful energy into every room. When she’s not charming people, she’s tangoing, throwing punches in Muay Thai, lifting heavy, or building an athleisure brand with her besties — all while crushing it at IKEA Singapore.


Confession Club: Love Edition (7/8)

Confessional-booth-meets-group-therapy. For the juicy stories you can’t tell your friends (or maybe you shared it too many times)

Love. Lust. Late-night “U up?” texts. That one person you still stalk online once in a while even though it’s been forever. Or maybe the one that you’re trying to thirst trap with your IG stories.

This isn’t a dating event. It’s not therapy. It’s Confession Club: Love Edition where we air our romantic laundry (dirty, clean, or “what was I thinking?”) and laugh/cringe/sigh about it together. It’s about the stories you can’t tell your friends or the one that they’ve heard about 129473 times and you need fresh ears to rant it out.

In this mixer, you’ll:

  • Secret Sharing:

Drop your love confessions anonymously—via our form or show up on the day itself. No names, no receipts, no judgment.

  • Group Therapy (But Make It Fun):

We’ll read them aloud. Maybe you’ll hear about:

  • That time someone delivered a 20 page handwritten love letter to their ex to win them back
  • The secret office fling that’s burning up the (Excel) sheets
  • The one who got away that you still think about from time to time

Just here to listen? That’s fine too, we’ve got snacks and drinks! Because nothing bonds strangers than shared love stories or dating mishaps.

Who’s this for?

  • The “I-have-a-crush-on-someone-who-doesn’t-know-I-exist”

-those who want to rant about dating apps and “why-do-I-keep-picking-the-wrong-ones”

  • Anyone who’s ever screenshot a text to 3 group chats for analysis.

This is a safe space where it isn’t about fixing your love life—it’s about catharsis, meeting like-minded folks and having fun!

Spaces are limited to ensure an intimate experience. Ready to confess and have a fun night out?

Date: 7/8, Friday
Time: 7.30 – 9.30 pm
Location: Co. @ Duxton, 99 Duxton Road #02-00 Singapore, 089543
Price: $55 (Includes drink & light snacks)