Communication & Transparency is a factor that’s often dismissed because hey, isn’t that where the ‘casual’ in casual sex comes from? Well what if we tell you it’s the most…
It may be called a No-Strings Attached (NSA) affair but ultimately they all come with loose threads that may end up in a messy entanglement if you’re not careful. So…
An instructional guide to becoming friends with benefits and other factors in casual sex. And oh what to do if you happen to catch feelings...
It would have been my late mother’s 63rd birthday on Thursday, 10/6. It also marked 609 days around the sun without her. (She would have appreciated the 6 and 9…
I’m a proud card-carrying member of the Sex(t)y Selfie Club. With the ubiquity of ring lights, mobile tripods and camera filters, it’s almost ridiculous how easy it is to become…
There are a few pairings in life that will always get polarizing reactions. Like pizza and pineapple, fries and ice cream... periods and sex. We bust the myths on period…
Mutual masturbation shouldn’t be seen as a ‘lesser’ form of pleasure and it isn’t an either-or situation in terms of sexual experience. If you’ve been skipping mutual masturbation as part…
When I was asked to appear on The Drunken Ramblings Podcast with Ernie, Ivan and Alexia, my only hesitation was "Uhoh, am I going to reveal too much on the…
Today’s the eve of my first official panel (and hopefully many more) as the founder and writer behind Shy & Curious and my mind’s in two places right now. Part…
How we were raised as children may hold the key to our adult romantic relationships through the research of attachment theory. Join me on 11 April 2021 in this informal…