I'm wrapping up (pun intended) the long (another one) and hard (I can’t help myself) look at my sex life in 2022. Also has sex and my attitude/experiences change pre…
You would think that waking up on January 1st next to a gorgeous boy in the Ritz Carlton would be an auspicious start to 2022. Spoiler Alert: It wasn’t. Instead…
‘Soft’ is a dirty word in my household. Or to be more precise, to be called ‘lembik’, its Malay equivalent, was considered an insult as it also happens to be…
In the spirit of World Sexual Health Day with this year’s theme being ‘let’s talk pleasure’, I take a walk through memory lane – or more accurately my Spank Bank records. From…
The things they should warn you about the first morning-after. Morning Breath. Bedhead. Smudged raccoon eyes (if you’re lucky). Total bare skin (if you’re not). Putting back on dirty underwear.…
How did a hopeless romantic end up having a body count higher than actual boyfriends? How did I find myself not just advocating for casual sex but teaching workshops on…
My Little Secret & Sad Story Here’s a little secret about me that may be one of the scariest things for me to reveal on the Internet. Amidst the talk…
Today’s the eve of my first official panel (and hopefully many more) as the founder and writer behind Shy & Curious and my mind’s in two places right now. Part…
I’m a creature of sentiment and habits. I wear my mum’s gold rings on my fingers. I spritz my necklace pendant with my love’s cologne. I tattoo myself with lessons.…